Well this post is also somehow related to girls like many others of mine but not focused on someone specific. You might already have seen many such posts or messages related to this topic and may feel too lazy to find any reason to read the same text again. But from my point view…..”Its different”.
Girls may feel that m favoring boys at many places but I want them to know all pros and cons before stepping into a thing like Love. I have seen a lot of people confused about getting into it or to focus on other main concerns. Like a friend of mine was afraid that it could affect his studies, but was in love with someone. Another one, a colleague of mine, has thoughts like “Girls are weird” and he find all these things useless. So this post may help some of my readers to decide.
Pros
I know almost all of you have gone through many explanations like :
- -If you want someone to greet you with some sweet words early morning at 5’o clock.
- -If you want someone to love you and care for you more that you do yourself.
- -If you want someone to be with you when no one else is.
- -If you want someone with whom you can share everything…….. blah blah blah….
I know many of you won’t find these reasons attractive enough as even I find some of such reasons idiotic. So I thought of giving you some better and logical ones :
- -First and most important reason is, if you want your friends stop saying to you “Tharki Saala”.
- -If you don’t want to feel jealous by looking at couples in your campus and think “Kash apni bhi hoti”.
- -If you want a right to say to your friends – “Bhabhi hai teri”, when you are tired of hearing the same.
- -Or if you simply want to feel yourself lucky for having a girlfriend in a college where girls ratio over boys is 1:10.
Now check if any of these can pull you to feel like love.
Cons
Well if you are still not convinced to fall in love, then m sorry I can’t help you. Or if you have moved only a bit towards love, than my coming reasons will surely pull you back. Beware before reading further.
First of all I would like to point it out that none of first four reasons are catchy enough and also not the true ones.
First one rarely happen coz words will get bitter day by day. Second is a pure lie (except few cases) coz no one loves you once you defy them. Third one may seem true but only until she find someone better(except in few cases). And fourth one…. Hah….just a lame excuse.
Apart from these counter comments I have few effective logics too like I gave you in the pros.
- -If you want your life to be only yours and no one else should rule it. Coz when a girl will enter into your life, either she will completely override all your day to day functions or will overload them with her own arguments and parameters to have full control over an object of your type. (That a bit of JAVA effect to make programmers understand better. 😉 )
- -If you don’t want someone to prevent you from doing NSP when you walk around the campus.
- -If you don’t want to be in a dilemma to choose one from two options – Studies/Girlfriend, Game/ Girlfriend, Movies/ Girlfriend, Friends/ Girlfriend, Food/Girlfriend, Sleep/Girlfriend and many more.
- -And finally money matters. If you don’t want to look at your empty wallet and think “Itne me to 10 logon ko party de deta”.
M done with it. I know I might have offended few peoples who are in true love or are apparently looking for it, but believe me I have no such intentions since I have specified few exceptions in braces for few points. If some of you have really got your Mr. Right or Miss. Perfect then think over it once again. Coz attractions with people can easily occur and may make you feel like love. But remember, that you have to be lucky enough to find your true love in the same person you once loved.
My World of Feelings 
vah yar sahi likha hai gf banne ke bad har har dilemma me yahi decide karna rahta hai ki vo ya baki sab kuch…: :p
haan bhai…..tumse behtar kaun janta h
prateek yr ek dum mast and sahi likha yr tune
thanks bro
yeahh..i m agree mr.prat..attraction is usual.people disguise it with love..bt only in few cases atttraction finally changes into true thats also with so much compromises..
sahi to nhi kahunga……..
doesn’t happen with all………
depends hw u deal and hw much u knw him or her…..
we have to be careful whether its attractn or a true love……..
true bhai……thats y at many places i have written “except few cases” in braces
@prateek…..bro very nicee effort to describe the love feeling…..but…get real bro !…
esa kuch bhi nahi hota…..true love kuch hota hi nahi h……it is just an attraction which can happen between any two persons……dont over-emphasize such a feeling with that name “love”….u dont have to be lucky to get ur true love…there is no luck one bro !….all you have to be is “straight” !!!…….(nowadays even that doesn’t count :P)
just telling my views…no offence to anybody..:))
yaar i agree that many a times people misunderstand attraction as love kind of thing but you are wrong here that true love doesn’t exist. And you will get somewhere sometime in future
kch b kaho photo sexy h teri :*
cheekuuuuuuuu
Totally against girls…I see…
Well, not against your views on “love”, because I have started feeling the same after reading the post…
Views…hmmmm…
good one bro!
claps!!!
😀
Not against girls actually…. Just attempted to clarify few things to my friends before they get into a relation. But m glad you loved it. Thanks:)
Oh, really?
kkk…
But when did I say I loved it??? did I ? Let me check..amm..a….aaammm….???..where….nope!
I didnt.
😛
LOL! I found it so real! Expected nothing else….
hah!
you can take your thanks back if you want then.
But stil lgood… 😀
K i take back my thanks. Well I was unaware of the fact that by “good one” and “claps” you din mean you love it. ;P
Really? Oh! I didn’t know that u didnt know the difference b/w liking a thinggy and loving a thinggy…afterall, whole of your post was about that…
wasnt it??
Not much of a literary person, are you? 😛
ohk…sorry to offend you Mr. Prateek Porwal, if I did. 😉
Hmm. Probably i will get the difference next time. Thanks for correcting me ma’am.
You are welcomed sir.
I literally “loved” “correcting” you.
😀
And am “literally” obliged being corrected by a girl with such a fine intellect. You are a true genius. How can i pay tribute to your favor Miss. Anisha ❓ 🙄
That was a pleasure indeed Mr. Porwal.
And well, there’s no “way” you can pay me a “tribute”, so all I can say is, have a “broad” mind conversation while “posting” something like this, which, how much so ever you say is isn’t against “someone”, anyone can figure out the bias.
May be you fing girls “irritating” and other “special” thinggies, but you can have the other look too, because it is not a “facebook status” update. It is rather a “blog”, needs to be responsible and unbiased.
So, thats it!:D
And if you still feel obliged, you may distribute some “sweets” to the poor cutie pies…I will be quite “tributed”.
I know its too much from my part and I must have sounded as a jerk, but okkk!
And I would have not “digged” into your’s so much if you placed it in the category of “humour”.
😉
Good day Mr. Porwal!
And some great one said, “Think before you speak”, and that means, “plan before you write…”
(But the whole point was the “BIASED” nature of the post.)
Pleasure and peace!
Your wish is my command ma’am. Tribute will be paid and very soon you will get words of praise from those “poor cutie pies”.
Just few points i would like to bring to your notice :
1. Although post was biased, you “started feeling same” after reading it. (afraid to take any risk this time. just copying your words)
2. One cannot always cover everyone’s view about a topic as there can be many. But just because this post was a bit against girls, you felt like offended.
3. “Someone great” whom you mentioned, by mistake said this thing too that once you pick a side, stick to it till the end. Either be on the boat or jump off.
4. Post looked biased because here i stated just one side of the coin. But perhaps you might have noticed, i have shown other side too in many of my other posts.
5. Neither m a disbeliever of love nor i hate girls for being so. This post was written for the sake of humor as it’s already categorized.
6. And at last but with the most important one, this one is personal blog. Here i express my views on things i feel like in a way i love too. But I have no intention to offend someone. If you have read this post till the end, or even in between, i mentioned few exceptions at places i felt m wrong. But since this one was being written for fun, i didn’t bother much to say few sorry words to those who will get hurt with this post.
7. Just a bonus point 😉 . I respect my audience(as they are like godfather to every blogger, at least for me) and their views for each and every of my article. I always insist people to provide me feedback so that i can fill the gaps between, with you people, as fast as i can. So your view is of equal importance. Will try to make my posts more general next time.
8. Bumper Bonus point. 😀 I have many other posts that were appreciated by every class of people in all respects. Have look at them too please from Top Posts and Pages” tag in the sidebar. And ya……they are not biased.
9. I know its getting too long, but last jumbo bonus point. 😛 I got another con for getting into love. “You can’t win an argument with a girl. Ultimately you have to end up in favor of her or accept that you were wrong 😆 “. But this was like a mind freshener for me amidst end semester exams. At least i can give thanks for this.
Well, I too have many “good” points, but not the time to mention all those, but again, I would like to say, it isn’t “immpossible” to win from girls….
but leave it. Happy, that I helped you to “freshen your mind at the end of sem”.
And I know what you must be thinking, but I dont care much. 😉
Adios!
Well, thanks for making peace finally. 🙂
Pleasure is mine Mr. Porwal. And normally I m a quite peaceful person, until I get pissed off as such.
And relic with your peace.
Enjoy it!
Oh so dats your real name miss Anisha. :O
I thought once for asking you about your Blog. But then socha bekar me bandi bhav khayegi 😀
And by the way, you dont look like a peaceful person
Yupz ! Hope you like it.
And by the way, I was posting like a “reader”, so I thought I should post by my nicky, but when we became so “good” friends, I thought why not to give myself a treat by giving a new critic way to my blog.
Hope you enjoy the trip, and feel free to “comment”, “unlike” and do random stuffs there…I would be pleased.
And by the way, thanks for the compliment! And you have quite a wrong idea about me, but kkk…I have been too much of a jerk, so its not your fault in ONE way.
(And celebrate dear, Kasab has been hanged yesterday!)
Enjoy! 😀
Thank God you quoted us as “good” friends.
But let me think…………………..
It looks much like sarcastic. 😛
Nyws i have already been through your blog, and read one post there. You too look much like a poetry lover.
I m, and am more than that. I love literature and all lovable thingiees (ie, that can be loved).
Books and music are my rescue from the world, like any other normal person. Love my family and friends….love myself and everyone.
And yes, I m quite sarcastic, my mother and all my gang beleives in it with all their heart.
And….I can speak too much, but adios, my examz are coming…so less blogging!
Need to know me? Go through my blog, it potrays me all. 😀
Rest, sorry for being rude, I know, but I actually disliked the way you were compleatly against girls. I too have my own opinions, but I m never against anyone in the way. NEVER.
But yup, its your own blog, so who am I to say?
Sorry and I mean it, but my opinion is the same.
Have a great journey! 😀
Hmm. finally i found something common between you and me. “Music”…..my first love.
And correct your words here plz. I didn’t write this post with any intention of hurting someone nd u can’t judge me with just one post. as i have already mentioned i wrote this post for the sake of fun.just thought of quoting some freaky points to guys who are confused about getting into a relation. As i know what things will matter for us even after being in a relation, i wrote them with some masaala. But i dont know what you people look for. So how can i make any comment on that part.
And let me clarify one more thing. Throughout our whole conversation, I never stopped you from expressing what you feel about the topic and none of your comments has been deleted. If m free to write my own views, you too are, anywhere, anytime.
So at last
इस पोस्ट का उददेश्य किसी व्यक्ति जाति धर्मं या सम्पदा को ठेस पहुचना नहीं है. यह सिर्फ एक व्यंगात्मक अनुच्छेद है. इसलिए मेरा यह आपसे अनुरोध है की कृप्या करके मुझे इसका दोषी मत बनायें |
All the best for exams ! 🙂
Woh!! The hindi part made me laugh without even reading it to the full.
And again, I agree. Sorrrry sirji, aap kripya kr itta lambaaaaaaaaaa comment na kre.
End it here, I got you wrong. ok? Being a girl, I m telling you I got you wrong, end it.
and thanks!!!
And I m not judging you, I dont judge anyone, and I m no one to do that.
And yup, thats a common thing, but that is a common thing to half the world.
And I now found, your blog is mostly about humour and college stuffs…feelings, friends, etc. so its not like professionals.
so Enjoy!!!!
Thanks if you really got that.
And thanks even if that was sarcastic too.
It was may be, but not in a mean way at all.
Hope no more conflicts. 😉
And you are heartly welcomed! 😀